Thursday, January 15, 2015

House of Marriage


Q: Had a very bad marriage- would she get any benefits from her spouse at all in terms of money or even company

A:"Bad" marriage is vague. I am normally very careful with such descriptions because there are many "value" variables that must be  factored into that definition. If you ask either of them to describe their marriage, both will give a sorrowful picture of how they suffered at the hands of the ruthless partner. As such, I will trust the horoscopes more than what they have to say.

The ruler of her house of marriage is hemmed between the only two fire planets in the whole zodiac. And BOTH of them have high dignity powers. The sun is exalted and Mars is in its own sign. And where does she put her ruler of marriage? Right in between them. She  wanted masculinity for her security but she idealized too much and got more than what she bargained for. She knew she was marrying someone aggressive with his views and values, and it was a risk she took when she decided to marry him. The interesting thing in that position is, that very position by Mercury raises it to a rajayoga status as the ruler of a kendra in a trikona bhava. This doesn't look like chance. It was a love decision at the point when she said 'yes' to the marriage, but now I wonder what was the object of  that love; the person, or what the person represented.

Her Moon is with Saturn ruler of her 2nd house in her 10th. His wealth will be placed in her hands and become her security. If that is what she is looking for, then the answer is yes, she will benefit from his wealth. In fact, at this point, she would have already even enjoyed a fair bit of that privilege.

I agree that she did get some of the security of money from her husband but it was a very small fraction of what he owned or had. Like a very very tiny part. Most of the wealth remains undisclosed to her and her children right now.. they know it exists but don't know where. Marriage where the couple stayed together under the same roof lasted only 5 years. There was infidelity in the relationship with husband marrying a second time whilst married to her.

Q:Did not get resources from her parents - why is that so?

A:This is unlikely. When Jupiter transited her Virgo it  gave a generally fruitful year for her where a number of her wishes should have fructified. But Saturn being Saturn, and both the current situation and even in her natal chart, were retrograde, she should expect delayed results. Her chart indicates much gifting in  her direction and she will inherit wealth from others. Do not intervene with the wrong currents. Let go and let God, and the energies she has built up will move in the direction of her horoscope's potentials. In her case, to think that her parents neglect her is wrong as Saturn the ruler of her 2nd house is supportive of her ambitions in the 10th house. The blessings they offer her are still coming her way in this life, but she should not be anguished with the waiting. As I said, this is the horoscope of a healthily gifted and bequeathed person.You are right. she had the most supportive parents but they did not leave her any property even though she did take care of them a lot.
Q: children are moving away from her - will that get better

A:Very general question. Nothing specific here, and I would need to deal with the children's individual horoscopes, too, in order to help with specific issues. Even from the chart, it is easier to see the first child best. Which is why seeing their individual charts can reveal relationships that are not obvious to the eye by way of shared configurations. She should have more male children than females. In fact, she should develop easier relationships with her boys than with her girls. She shouldn't have much to worry about the welfare of her children, as generally, they will do her proud. I have seldom seen a house for children as firm and promising as that of this horoscope.
Children are good but 2 of her three children are moving abroad so she does not enjoy any time with them.

Q:Despite having money is not able to buy any property - why are the stars against any immovable property 

A:I disagree. Her sentiment is a regret over some meager attempt. She will have her own property, and she will have more than one. Sometimes, at a certain point in one's life, things appear hopeless; but that is not how nature works. That is the pain of intellect. Age is not an issue to secure such investments. But her Moon's sedation by Saturn (a recurring combination in her chart indicating easy surrender) is a self-deterrent to much of her intrinsic blessings. Her horoscope suggests that she should want to carry a piece of lead and silver together on the lower right side of her abdomen to minimise that lethargy in her energies.

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